Let's blog today on problems of our lives and how to put an end to them. This I hope will be of help in a way as I have seen it in my life.
Truly we all come across problems that affect our life and we have to deal with them. However, its how we deal with them that can make all the difference.
Problems can occur in life through mistakes that we make ourselves or through unforeseen circumstances beyond our control, whichever way they cross our path we should deal with them in the same levelheaded way.
Stay in control
There are basic ways in which we can help ourselves overcome problems easier when life throws them our way but the most important of them is to remain in control of your thoughts and feelings. Remember that worrying and getting upset about any situation wont change the situation in any way, it won’t make it go away by magic. Try to think of problems as challenges that arise, tests that are put in our path to see how we deal with them and overcome them.
It is all about how we deal with problems emotionally that matter, our emotional state can take us through our problems if we allow it to. If you are prone to worrying when problems arise and allow depression to set in, you still have to get through the tough times, only they will be so much harder to get through.
The first thing you have to understand is that you don’t have to understand the cause of the problem in order to solve it and get past it. If only I knew why? Is the first question that many of us ask when faced with difficulty, but knowing why doesn’t change anything. The solution to the problem lies ahead not behind and this is the way you should be looking, don’t spend energy trying to figure why, spend it focusing on looking for the solution.
Don’t spend anymore than 20% of your time on focusing on the problem and wondering why; do spend 80% on figuring out a solution to the problem. The only question you need to ask yourself is “what am I going to do about it?”
When problems get you down
If problems are getting you down remember that everyday is a new day, while life seems to be throwing many problems your way right now it doesn’t mean it will tomorrow. Leave the past where it belongs and only concentrate on the future and it getting brighter day-by-day.
To lift yourself up out of the blues ask yourself “what is happening in my life right now that I have to be grateful for?” if you sit down and think deeply about this, no matter how many problems you seem to have right now there is always something which you should be grateful for.
So dealing with solving problems is all about how you look at them, face them head on and don’t shrink from them in despair. Focus on obtaining a solution for solving the problem and then go for it full steam ahead until you have dealt with it and got through it.
NEVER GONNA GIVE IN
The pressure breaks on both sides
The turning point is cast out
So adamant stands the slide
Who can change this trend?
Everything sounds odd and outdated
Even friends collide my time alive
I am pursued and daily quoted
Yet never gonna give in today
I will the world a seeing
For many had gone through these
A cry for nothing but the best
Just gonna be quiet and stand
My days are coming back
To become and stand in line
Many like me are there
These days was giving in signs
Salau O John©2010
I WILL
I know I will, one day
I will become my dreams
I know I will someday
I will become my vision
I care not what the world says
I care not for lives storms
For I know I will soon sail
And all eyes will see soon
I know I will this day
I know I will throw grains
My love will find me soon
And my aim will become true
I will become my hope
I will walk in my supposed
Though the world can’t cope
I will become my proposed
Olanrewaju O John©2010
LOVING THE BALL
Many times we’re falling
Apart from childish fallout
Life is all about falling to rising
Though not all can love tryouts
Many days we’ve all failed
Apart from failing in schools
Love is risky all do bailed
Though not all can be that tooled
Many assumptions had made lost
Apart from mischievous advices on taken
Life offers free-bad course on toast
Though understanding derail the taking
Loving the life and men is odd
Apart from pleasing the world balled
Life and love will call man’s sword
Though those succeeding will ball
Salau O John©2010
KEEP THAT PEACE
Happiness will wage the heart in success
The mouth will travel to broad subject
While the enemy stands idle in wickedness
Many do not understand failed future
Success calls on all to understanding
What should have been should have been
But open throat was that unrelenting
And not all that’s seen wants future
All are made in secret to tray
Half done is better before open trench
Life is but secretive to no delay
And only wisdom helps in fruition
Hold your peace till you succeed
Men waylays the plan they see
Stand aside the enemy will plead
But let not the mouth open undone
Salau O John©2010
To your success,
Salau John
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