Tuesday, February 2, 2010

What Are Your Values About Life?

The values you set for yourself in life should be critically important to you and all others in your life. The way you were raised as a child should be a reflection of what those values are like today. I sometimes wonder today if people really care about what kind of values they live by. It seems that our society today seems less caring about what kind of life's values they live by.


Just recently I read an article in a senior citizen's newsletter that really concerned me about this particular subject. The article was about a male senior citizen who was now involved in an extramarital relationship and who thought his affair was perfectly legitimate.

Here's the real shame of the whole story. His wife was now in the late stages of Alzheimer's disease and even though he wasn't interested in a divorce he believed this affair was right for him to be in. What is even a bigger shame was his friends and children even endorsed this affair.

As far as I know all marriage vows include the words "for better or for worse until death do we part". Maybe he forgot that pledge and was only interested in his own personal satisfaction. People have to realize when faced with challenges in their lives that the values they set for themselves should create the support they need to survive them.

I may not married but soon the bells will cling, yet with all that I have seen, gleaned and pass through though, I believe values can be holding unto and I can say I've tried to live up to some pretty strong ones. I believe that is how I've kept myself and my relationship for going.

There's a chart I came across on the Internet recently that may be of interest to you. See how you stand on all of life's values. Take time to assess your life's values. See if there are areas you would like to improve. If you would like to know more about this subject you can reach me at treasured1creativeideas@yahoo.com or comment to: http://www.orgsites.com/fl/treasured1/

FAITHFULNESS
The heart is the power of obedience
Though some men in conscience have died
Faithfulness stands out sounding motivation
For the same cause Christ bled and sigh

Here wails the waiting of hope
For many in kindred mind bled
What lays in store our line?
For the flesh and the spirit do fled

Where are the faithful?
The world of dying men do pine
Where sound the untold stories?
All men in selfishness do shine

To love is faithfulness
And to be is truthfulness
But our worlds undo woes
And pray for power in kindness
Salau O John©

SEE BEYOND
Troubles will try the heart away
But get away from the people to God
And stop, listen; a word he’ll say
Worry not but plant in the Lord

The sky is the worlds’ limit
But in God I sail your burden
For isolated in Him, you’re fit
And known a path alight open

See thou the stars with scars
Your limitation your burden
God lays the imagination so far
But thou must see, buying concern

O for the heart, God understands
Ah! The manifold blessings of God
How great they are, greater than sand
See beyond the physical, but the Lord
Salau O John

CHANGE THOUGHT
Thought change is attitude corrected
And attitude brought about altitude
Yet many things yoked dejected
But that alight burrow fortitude

Thoughts make the world possible
Though changes are hard to tie
But a correct turning, a credible
Even when all things want sigh

With your thoughts comes your doing
And with the mind wears all change
For the power to form lays your going
Though the world, a friend thy strange

Here hope coping change thoughts
For the lesson you ought taught
Here comes the heaving, your heart
But that change yours to chart
Salau O John©
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