Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Living Your Life Your Way

Pleasing the masses is the goal of many, as they seek daily approval from people they may or may not even like, rather than pleasing themselves. They think, speak and act in ways they believe will give them the best possible life, all the while avoiding that important voice from deep within reminding them of an unfulfilled life that's begging to be lived.

No one would take a wrong path if they had a clear picture of how their life should go, but life just kind of happens to people when they're not taught to be aware of who they are and what they truly enjoy. So many people are confused about their identity, they aren't able to set their children in the direction of their dreams, thus perpetuating a legacy of living life for the world instead of for themselves.

Most young people don't have a clue what they should do with their lives, even though they're on the precipice of decision making that will effect their lives forever. As a result, they pass on more altruistic goals for the creation of a "lifestyle" rather than a life of self-expression and true fulfillment.

Instead of listening to their hearts, they beckon to the loud roar of having money for the sake of self-esteem, prestige to impress those they envy or despise, and an intellectual capacity to impress rather than to make a difference. But as I've said, one can hardly blame a person for falling into such traps, especially when the world gives such low priority to inner guidance and strength to pursue one's dreams no matter what it takes.

We're constantly getting mixed messages about being true to ourselves or not putting money at the center of our lives, yet at the same time we're deluged with information that implies the importance to be "somebody" through fame and riches which come from endeavors more self-serving than a lifetime dream fueled by passion and great expectation to make the world better.

So is money wrong? Is it evil? And are we to believe that to desire fame is shallow?

Well, I certainly can't deny that money is a necessary commodity. We can't live without it in modern society. So it can't be evil if it's necessary, but it shouldn't be the goal that leads us to our dreams.

It will probably lead us astray and usually away from what will give our work the most enjoyment and excitement. When we follow our hearts, money will naturally follow and perhaps fame, but it won't be necessary. The satisfaction from work we enjoy will be enough.

It's often difficult to trust putting money last, especially in times when the economy is difficult, but no matter what your age, you can have it all, career or business, fulfillment, excitement and wealth when you keep your priorities clear. When this happens opportunities will abound through a focused vision and knowledge of who you are as opposed to who you're trying to be.

Keep learning and keep building your dream while you keep your path toward your promised land instead of someone else's.

NOT YOUR PLACE
So many do know the road
So many do have their plans
But how many are truly bold?
The time and days beckons on men

The suffering of leadership waylays
The pangs of being burns hearts
But where are the walk and says
The place trays its place truly alert

There’s a place for real freedom
There’s a chance in Gods kingdom
But how many walk in true vision?
There’s a chance for changing mission

The place stands alert for time
The road awaits the kings crossing
But not all can truly align
For those at their place gets crowned
Salau O John©

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